Monday, August 3, 2009

Mom's Day- which is better?

Should I go ahead and spend extra to have flowers delivered on Mother's Day, or wait and buy a nice gift and give it to her later when we see her, either the following week or the week after?





I invited her to brunch- no. I invited her to a play- no. I invited her to visit (no answer) and I said we'd visit in 2 weeks.





So... flowers or wait?

Mom's Day- which is better?
I would send her flowers, because then she won't be sitting there on mother's day feeling unloved. Even if you gave her a gift later, it wouldn't be the same as having something right on the day.
Reply:You get an A for Effort. You have invited her, and she won't come, so you can't feel bad about her "no plans" guilt trip, lol. Report It

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Reply:just send her flowers now



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Which would make you happier?

Flowers delivered to you at work/school?


A gift delivered to your home from the Louis Vuitton store?


Ben and Jerry's delivery man coming up the sidewalk with a dolly full load of ice cream?

Which would make you happier?
Flowers or vegan ice cream =)
Reply:definitely the gift
Reply:flowers @ work





so sweet...





plus making coworkers jealous is always fun :D
Reply:A vegan meal made especially for me. Flowers die and ice cream melts too quickly.
Reply:my prince makes me happier..... my saviour king, knowing he lavishes his love on me .............. then last but not least a gift delivered to my home from loius vuitton or any shopping store........
Reply:Flowers delivered
Reply:ben and jerry's !!! yay yum
Reply:flowers being delivered to me at work
Reply:Louis Vuitton because I'd sell it and buy another Chanel purse :)
Reply:Flowers would be nice!
Reply:Flowers delivered at work. It's nice to get flowers at home but it's better at work where everyone can see and be jealous. If it's my favorite flower = big bonus points!!!
Reply:flowers
Reply:flowers delivered to my work, that will make me happy!!!
Reply:Flowers, I'm a hopeless romantic. The cheaper the better-- I know, sorta weird( I mean, what girls doesnt' want big, fancy flowers?!) but to me it's just sweeter that way. (n_n) A nice card with them would be good too, but I'd settle for a secret admirer!





~The Otaku Twins~
Reply:ice cream definitely
Reply:OOOOooo... it's a tie between the flowers and the ice cream. The problem would be that I do not have the facilities to store all that ice cream all at once, but the flowers are much easier to accomodate.








Everyone is entitled to my opinion.
Reply:Why flowers? they'll die


Why eat? it's all going down the toilet anyways.


Gifts? totally.


Or maybe a kiss. I could use one. who wouldn't
Reply:Wow all of those would be amazing, I wish my boyfriend would even think to do one of those.





Depends, if she's into the fancy clothes/money stuff, then do the Louis Vuitton.





But if she's more into the simple things, do ice cream or flowers
Reply:Actually, how about a small trunk from Louid Vuitton half filled with flowers and the Ben %26amp; Jerry ice cream packed in dry ice in the other half?!
Reply:All of the above would make me happiest but I haven't had ice cream in like a year or two or three so that would be sorta cool except I might become addicted again and have to spend months at B%26amp;J anonymous. (that sounds almost odd)





:-)


Peace y'all
Reply:MMMMMMMMM, ice cream, the Ben and Jerry's.
Reply:ICE CREAM!
Reply:It's a toss up between the flowers and the ice cream....but I'm gonna go with the flowers.
Reply:#1 would embarass the life out of me and piss me off


#2 would be good if i could choose what i want


#3 i wouldnt have enough room in my freezer
Reply:Flowers delivered at work, it would make me feel special.
Reply:Gift from Louis Vuitton


Flowers die and ice cream is gone when I eat it, but LV is forever :)
Reply:2nd hehe i love me some LV


and i don't like thing sent to work/school


and ice cream only lasts until i eat it
Reply:I'd have to go with the Ben and Jerry's.



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What do YOU want for v-day? (guys really!)?

I need a good gift for my bf for valentines. I was thinking an Edible Arrangement delivered (hes at school. im home) or maybe even a bouquet of balloons. Would that be stupid for a guy to get? I dont want to do the whole picture frame thing etc...Hes getting flowers delivered most likely, so i need something to match that. We're only 19, so nothing rediculous! haha Any suggestions as to what i can possibly buy him would be AWESOME. he's not into sports!





Thanks guys!

What do YOU want for v-day? (guys really!)?
im also 19 and i honestly would not care what my gf got me (but i really dont like it when people give me materialistic things) so i would be over the moon if she just got me a rose and spent the day with me





anything simple that shows your affection would go down very well i imagine
Reply:something that is non tradition
Reply:Dear, dear,


Forget the foo foo stuff, he'll do that for u, get him something that he'll have and think of u for a long time to come, my #1 suggestion for a lad of 19 would be CDs...hmmm..his favorite of course, but if your stuck I would suggest these bands as a start: FLAW, Disturbed, Static-X, Rob Zombie, MTVs Headbangers Ball, Soundtracks Queen of the Damned or XXX, or go with a good DVD. As far as the edible arrangement I am sure you are the only "food" he'll want on his plate.



skin disease

What would be more romantic?

My gfs birthday is this saturday. Im at college at few hours away so she doesnt think ill be around this weekend.. I was going to drive home friday. Should I show up and surprise her saturday morning with flowers as shes waking up. Or should I show up and surprise her friday night spend the night with her and have the flowers delivered to her that saturday morning?

What would be more romantic?
on friday night when she is coming home come up behind her and hug her


just don't be sneaky and scare her


(girls can kick hard when they're scared)
Reply:They're both so nice. Surprise her on the friday.



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Advice pleeeeeease!!!!?

my boyfriend of 7 months broke up w. me because he couldn't take our busy schedules anymore...i work all day %26amp; go to school at night %26amp; he works on the weekends. after 2 weeks he calls me %26amp; tells me that he misses me %26amp; loves me %26amp; that he made a huge mistake by letting me go. this didnt phase me %26amp; i told him that saying it would not make me believe it anymore because i believed him when he said that he didnt want to be with me. i told him that he needed to prove to me that he wanted me back. i got home from work last night %26amp; there were flowers delivered to my house that said "i love you so much %26amp; i am ready and willing to prove this to you now. i love you endlessly -ben". i thought it was sweet but i knew that i needed more than just a sorry and flowers for my heart to settle. he asked me to take work off tomorrow because he has some suprises for me. i love him but i want to be positive he loves me.





do you think he's sorry %26amp; that he truly knows he wants to be with me?

Advice pleeeeeease!!!!?
No, I don't think he truly knows he wants to be with you. From the looks of it you are almost 20 and he is probably about the same age. I think you have a lot of looking and maturing to do before you find someone that is mature enough for you. Also, think about this: After a break-up it is very typical for the pair to miss each other, that is human nature, and it is o.k. But what has changed in your lives that will make the relationship work now when it didn't before? Do you still work all day and go to school at night? Does he still work on the weekends? If all of this is the same, then taking him back will bring you right back into the same situation after the good-feelings you get from being back together settle down. It is o.k. to not cling to anyone too tightly until you get married! Just move on, no hard feelings.
Reply:i think he truly loves u go 4 it gal u onli live once bbe good luck babe xx tasha xx
Reply:I think he's just horny as hell and needs some *** asap!
Reply:it happens with all


first he let u go then he realised


that somthing is missing and that somthing is not just anything


is this special some one i feel for that is u


give him another chance


dont be so mean ok


cheers
Reply:yeah i think so
Reply:wow, i think you should first see what he's gonna show u, after a while see his reactions, and check out to see his expressions while he's around you, but if u like what he does with you, and YOU yourself feel convinced that he loves you, then go for it, there's nothing stopping you =)
Reply:Yeah, I really do think so. Give him the chance. Best wishes
Reply:what exactly do u want him to do to prpve it to u.. give him a chance.. we dont know what we got til its gone.. well i think he realized what he had and is willing to try his hardest to get it back, he didnt cheat on u or betray u, just a momentary laps in judgement...
Reply:I think he probably is sorry....looks like he decided 2 break up with u because he felt it was the best thing to do at the time and now he regrets his action....i'll let u know what makes me think so: i have this really good friend, a guy who had a relationship with one of my best girlfriends. They were together for about two years and even applied to the same university just to be together; suddenly he broke up with her....he probably felt 'tired' of the relationship....a few days later, he called me for advice and kept calling to talk with me.(They moved 2 a different country for uni so u can imagine how much he was spending on phone bills)....neway, he called saying he regreted breaking up with her, he missed her, he couln't eat or sleep...etc. i then adviced him to tell her how he felt (i would have told her about his calls and all but i did not want to get directly involved or betray his confidence)...so about 2 weeks after their breakup, he planned a surprise dinner in a fancy place to appologise and ask her to be his girl - again. she said no. now i know my girl and i know she was still madly in love with him, but like you, she wasn't positive and she believed him when he said he did not want to be with her anymore. She ended up getting hurt because she lost him and she did not save the relationship when she had the chance.


Think about it. if u're not 'positive' but u're still in love with him, why not take a chance and follow your heart?....it's better trying and taking the risk now than wondering what would have been.


Good luck......hope i helped you!!!
Reply:your schedule is stillgoing to be busy! so he'll break up w/u again. come to a common ground make a schedule for time w/ him and turn off ur phone and just be alone a couple days a week
Reply:what does he have to do to prove to you? I dont think he likes wasting his time, so uh yeah I'm sure he means it.
Reply:I am in a similar situation with my ex fo 7 months. He broke up woth me for reasons untold and now he has that look again and I can tell he's about to ask. I don't knwo because after he told me that he loved me and broke up with me.
Reply:He means it gal,give him onother chance he is definitely worth it!Just try again you dont wanna miss out on his lovin'!!
Reply:I think He's sorry but only you know that. It sounds like he really just made a mistake. He prob. was overwhelmed withyou'll scheldule, everyone says things they dont mean. Give it another try. Dont pass up Mr. Right because you not sure if he loves you. You love him, Thats all you need.
Reply:sounds genuine to me...you never know what you have until it is gone no matter the circumstances...GL!
Reply:yeah, try it again and if he does it again to you then end it permanently
Reply:i did the same thing as your bf.. my gf never forgive me.. but i love her very much stilll. give him a chance he might be telling the truth
Reply:yes. take the chance he was really sweet and he didnt break up for someone else only because its hard to be in a relationship where neither of you have time, see him.
Reply:If he really loved you in the first place, he would have accepted your schedule and been cooking dinner or cleaning while you weren't home. Being supportive is a sign of loving someone. This picking up the peices crap is just that. He did you a favor and now its your turn to take time for yourself and ask if you even want another possible nightmare scenerio with someone else while your schedule is crazy. But as for this guy who after 7 months wants back, well he had 7 months to prove that he accepted your schedule. and to show that his feelings for you could withstand anything. Obviously, it wasn't. Good luck though....



White Teeth

Should Valentine's Day be moved to the weekend?

With people, most especially men, are working more hours than ever to make ends meet, they are simply too tired to plan anything special on a week night. According to the Census Bureau, men put in 45-48 hours a week, compared to an average 35 hours a week for women. Since Valentine’s Day is primarily a day where men are expected to put out that little extra for the love in their lives, it would be much easier for them to do so on Saturday. In this way, they will be rested up and better prepared for the day. Instead of paying the extra cost of having flowers delivered, they can deliver it, and all the other expected gifts, themselves.





As a cab driver, I’ve noted from the decreasing number of people who are getting out doing anything when Valentine’s Day is on a work night. A Saturday would work so much better. So, what do you think?

Should Valentine's Day be moved to the weekend?
The 14th of February falls on a different day depending on the year. It changes every year.





Next year (2009) the 14th falls on a Friday.


In (2010)it falls on a Sunday.





I know a lot of couples who do not necessarily go out on this date (they exchange gifts). They wait until the weekend to go out to dinner or have a "special date".





It's a TRADITION having it on the 14th. It would kind of be like moving Halloween to a weekend because the 31st is often during the week.
Reply:i have to celebrate mine tomorrow because my bf had wrestling finals all weekend.


i think weekends would be much better =]
Reply:I think men should just ask their partners if they could move the celebration to Saturday. Any woman who wouldn't find this to be a perfectly acceptable solution to the problem is probably not worth dating or marrying in the first place.
Reply:good idea! Then we could all party on valentine's night! :)
Reply:No.


Wednesday works well. It allows couples to spread the thoughts over two weekends.


If a couple has a hard time agreeing on which day to celebrate their affections for each other, then there quite likely more important problems are boiling below the surface. In an ideal relationship one should be able to express their love no matter how tired or short on time they may have.
Reply:Personally I'd to change Dec 25th Christmas to Friday or Sat. I'd also like to do the same for New Years Eve.





It's really hard to have activities on Christmas all day and then have to go to work in the morning.





Also, Halloween should be on Friday or Sat. Kids could then stay out all night and not have to worry about having to go to school in the morning.





These are all holidays on certain days and that is not going to change.
Reply:NO!
Reply:It should have been moved on Friday. It would've been better on a friday and I furthermore agree with you.
Reply:No, it should be celebrated on February 14, like it has been for many many years.
Reply:Good idea, but as we are lazy then we are going to end up moving her birthday and then the anniversary and in the end, we will say lets celebrate all the days on 25th dec.
Reply:Good idea :P
Reply:I agree because I was exhausted when I got home from work yesturday! It would make it easier on those of us who do work a lot. Atleast on a Saturday or a Sunday I would have been able to atleast cook instead of ordering in and I could have stopped by the flower shop to pick up roses, (delivery wouldn't have worked out yesturday). I think we should start taking signatures to get this day moved!
Reply:No....I dont think so.
Reply:Absolutely



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I miss my boyfriend so much....?

we dating for about 10 months. We were fighting cus we both have alot of stress in our lives...and because of the 18 yrs age diff we both decided to go our separate ways. we work together, and we have been talking at work. He comes by my desk to ask me how my day is going and vice versa. I had flowers delivered to my desk from my best friend and he even asked who the flowers were from. I am DYING to email him and tell him I miss him , but i'm afraid of rejection and how I would feel if he told me he doesnt want me back. I think it speaks volumes that we are still talking and smiling at eachother at work...I dont know how to read this.... I'm heart broken...dont know whether to let it go or not.

I miss my boyfriend so much....?
My best advice is to talk to him. Yes you are setting yourself up for potential rejection but there is also the potential to get the one you care about back. You'll never know unless you speak up. It would be worse going on not knowing then knowing the truth whatever it may be. You never know, he may be feeling the same way, and is scared to talk to you....
Reply:Let it go. He probl. wants one or two more sessions between the sheets or on top of the desk. Don't do it and move on.





But when you do give in, fax me the copy of your butt that prints out while he has his way with you in the copy room.....lol



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