Does he know he screwed up or is he just really good at faking sorry?

my boyfriend of 7 months broke up w. me because he couldn't take our busy schedules anymore...i work all day %26amp; go to school at night %26amp; he works on the weekends. after 2 weeks he calls me %26amp; tells me that he misses me %26amp; loves me %26amp; that he made a huge mistake by letting me go. this didnt phase me %26amp; i told him that saying it would not make me believe it anymore because i believed him when he said that he didnt want to be with me. i told him that he needed to prove to me that he wanted me back. i got home from work last night %26amp; there were flowers delivered to my house that said "i love you so much %26amp; i am ready and willing to prove this to you now. i love you endlessly -ben". i thought it was sweet but i knew that i needed more than just a sorry and flowers for my heart to settle. he asked me to take work off tomorrow because he has some suprises for me. i love him but i want to be positive he loves me.





do you think he's sorry %26amp; that he truly knows he wants to be with me?

Does he know he screwed up or is he just really good at faking sorry?
Dump him. He cant commit.
Reply:you both need time to assess the problem that caused him to decide as he did. do you want to solve it? do your solutions match his? start over and take it slow with him, you need to get to know each other again.
Reply:I think he really means it. Sometimes it takes someone to lose someone they love before they actually know that they need them and want them in their life. I think you should give him another chance. I just hear him out before you go off and make a decision.
Reply:It sounds like he does really love you, maybe he was just stressed out from not being able to see you as much as he wanted and broke it off making a real irrational decision.
Reply:first of all, the flowers thing-- that's a good sign! i say that because flowers are not cheap, especially a boquet(sp?) of them, no matter what type of flower(s) it consists of. i really think he's trying.





i think when you see these surprises though, then you'll have your answer. maybe you should give it one more chance and see where it leads. if he goes back to his old ways, then YOU break it off. don't put up with it anymore-- it's not worth it. it only brings you down.





i'm sure things will be great though-- just have a NEUTRAL feeling about the whole thing, but have expectations for what surprises he may have for you, and if he meets those-- or is d*mn close-- take him back. notice the little things though (i know us girls are good @ that anyways.) see if he had little things in your surprises that would have taken him a lot of effort that's a good sign, because he thinks your worth it. and if it even costed SOME money-- that's another sign!! lmao!!





i think you should really give him a second chance and see where it goes. i hope this helped you! good luck sweetie!!
Reply:Also, if your asking this question to begin with. Its already over, it will always be in the back of your mind. Besides guys repeat things like this. So beware.



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