Monday, August 3, 2009

Is this weird?

I have a really good male friend of four years. And he lives in Ohio and Im in Georgia. I recently went and saw him for a week. lets say it is now going to another level. And i would do anything to be with him.. He kinda got mad at me for something silly. But I was kinda thinking about getting a thing of flowers delivered to him "just because" something like that...does a man like getting flowers or would he think that was gay..what would be other suggestions he is kinda far away to do anything else any suggestions

Is this weird?
Well.. Flowers are for some guys.. but my hubby doesn't particularly like them.. (just his way I guess)





But he does love junkfood...a surprise pizza delivery for lunch...





If you want to send flowers, there is a really neat chain called Candy Bouquet.. they can make the candies look like a vase of flowers.. but they are edible..





Now THAT my hubby WOULD like.. even if he doesn't particularly like flowers.
Reply:if you know the guy well enough, i think you know the answer to your question. it's not so much about liking the flowers (and i LOVE 'em!) but about knowing that someone cared, someone was thinking of me, someone loves me (or likes you a lot) and wanted me to know it. STILL smiling days later!





when you are so far away, i realize there is only so much that you can do: it can be kind of paralyzing. no, be assured that the flowers will be a wonderful gesture.





if you absolutely absolutely DON'T want to go the floral route, you could also try... free movie passes with the stipulation that they're for the next time you visit, a gift card from a local restaurant or store, certainly candy, a cd or book you two might have talked about, or a picture of you (or the two of you together if you took any while you were there) nicely mounted.





hope you get to still the "next level" and everything turns out okay!
Reply:I dont see anything wrong with that, maybe he thought it was manly enough to be sent flowers, after all its tradionally something that a woman receives, next time try sending a cd or a card
Reply:Flowers are definitely not just a woman thing.. Alot of men enjoy the beauty of nature. I have sent flowers to men before and they truly thought they were nice.
Reply:There is nothing wrong with getting a guy flowers. Just keep in ind that we have this thing about certain colors. Just try to pick a masculine color or colors and i'm sure that he will appreciate them.





Just out of spite, what part of Ga are you from?
Reply:Some guys would like it But!!!! alot will not.. Why not something like a cookie bouquet.They make them with mens designs.Depending on your friend if you dont know if it will embarrass him or not. I would not.Till you know for sure.
Reply:Finally a gal who gets it. Some guys really do like to get flowers and I am one of them. Its one of those "We always get you flowers so why dont you get us some?" things. Now that being said he may not like flowers. Some girls dont like flowers either. But since you are not sure if he does or not I think you should send some with a nice note. He will appreciate it alot. We like surprises just like the ladies do.
Reply:No i think that is a nice idea...blokes like to be surprised too and there is nothing gay about sending floweres!!
Reply:alot of guys would like the flowers or something small just showing that your thinking about them and care flowers or candies or something small is good to send
Reply:I've sent flowers to my man before. He was actually very touched by my thougtfulness.



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